If you’re looking at my blog wondering why the links to my Planner Society posts aren’t working, it’s because while the post has been saved, it is no longer public.
I’m not interested in allowing people to use me to further drama. I know it won’t stop it all completely, but it’s something.
If you really want to know what happened, I’ll explain it simply. I was treated with incredible disrespect from the owner of a company. This woman then decided to encourage 30,000 women to drag me online. She spread really heinous lies about me to further encourage harassment. Well, if I were the sort of person to cry about that stuff I’d have been devastated. People kill themselves over this kind of stuff. Lucky for me I’m not really bothered by what some stranger on the internet thinks about me. I won’t lose sleep over curse words and insults. She is that type though. How do I know that? The same group that she encouraged to harass me is now 40,000 members strong- and they’ve turned on her.
I can’t say I didn’t see it coming. After all, she had no problem treating me like dirt. It was only a matter of time before she did it to someone “important”. She isn’t a very nice person, and that was always going to come back to bite her in the butt. But really, it doesn’t matter what she did to me. Or even what she did to anyone else. The way people harass others online is not okay. If you’re not setting puppies on fire or kicking babies, you shouldn’t have to deal with that level of abuse.
I know what you may be thinking. “But you didn’t do something to her, she did something to you.” That’s true. But every time someone points to the post I had up, or suggests searching for me in that group, they’re gong to get led here. I’d rather my blog be a dead end.
Look, I’ll be honest. If you ask me I’m going to tell you the truth. I’d sooner set myself on fire than give Christy Tomlinson my money ever again. But that’s for my own personal reasons. I won’t help you find new, mean, things to say to her. I’m not going to pipe up in the Facebook group with any “I told you so’s”. And more so, I won’t directly assist in her harassment. I just won’t. So do as you please, but don’t look to me for help.
I am still a member of that Facebook group. I very rarely interact, though every few months I pop on just to look around. You can try to search for me there, and you can tag me in comments. But unless you’re tagging me for something positive, I won’t respond. I ask that you respect that.